On 4/29/2008
wrachelle wrote:
I'm 17 years old and I found out a month ago that I had Stage 2 kidney cancer. I can't really talk to my friends about it because its so hard for them. And I was looking for someone else who went through it and understands what I'm going through. Just to make friends basically.
Email me if anyone wants to talk.
w.rachelle@yahoo.com
My heart goes out to you - so young and without the support system of friends around you to help you deal with this. Parents and family are one thing, friends another thing entirely for someone your age. I know, I have a 14 year old daughter; friends can be everything.
I'm new to the board - my mother-in-law has kidney cancer that has matastasized to the lungs and she is getting ready to start on Sutent. I am amazed at the support the people on this board give to each other, both patients and caregivers. I, too, came to the board looking for some emotional support as well as info - there's nothing like talking with someone who's been there, done that, bought the t-shirt. (Sorry, just had to try to make you smile a little)
I'm fotunate to have plenty of caring friends and family around who would do anything needed to help out or just give a shoulder to cry on but sometimes it helps to have the person who is listening REALLY know what you are talking about, REALLY know what you are feeling and going through. Sometimes, it's just a REALLY good thing to be able to pour out what you are feeling, to start to put your chaotic thoughts into some kind of order as you type them out. It can be a really good stress reliever because sometimes its hard to say those things in person to a person.
And information - oh my gosh, the information these people have talked through: chemo drugs, side effects, alternative therapy, etc. It is nothing short of amazing. I've had a real eye opening experience reading through the posts - I've started taking notes when ever I see a hint for how to deal with some of the side effects, making notes of things to ask her oncologist, noting the chemo drugs people mention that they have been on or getting ready to be on so I can google it. Sometimes it's overwhelming but I am so glad I found this board.
Know that you are in my prayers. Please, let me know how you are doing. I feel sure in saying this: there are lots of people who will read your post and care and want to know, as well.
Beverly