You need to get at least two appointments with oncologists who specialize in PC. I assume you live near Chicago so there should be someone there. You can go to Pancan to get recommendation or advice as well. You may also want to inquire about clinical trials.
You are lucky to have no lymph node involvement but PC is a nasty, aggressive disease and needs to be treated aggressively so get a good doctor or two and get some more opinions. The best of luck to you.