Excellent advice!!!!! 1999 diagnosed primary liver/ gallbladder. Removed gallbladder and resected left lobe of liver. one year later a spot showed up on right lobe of liver. Advised only hemaginoma no need for surgery again. Six months later spot on liver grew very slightly and spots showed on both lungs. Today taking chemo and waiting to see how it goes. The point is I have felt and seen those emotions and behavoirs many times. For me it is primarily Feelings of wanting to be isolated and not wanting to have everyone bearing over me. Although, I love them all dearly, and it is difficult to break through some of those emotional barriers. Love and the sin of a little tear drop usually breaks the barrier though. If you don't mind me asking, how are you and your husband doing? It really is a rough road don't yea think? God's Prayers to you both!
Sincerely, Jeff G.