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Subject: Barriers Are Sometimes Hard to Break
Date: 07/06/2005
I would first like to thank you guys for all the positive input you have given me. My prayers are with you as well. I have not been able to contact my girlfriend or her family in several days. I would really like to know how things are going. I think that things are probably getting pretty tough for them at this point so Im going to pull back and give them there space. Im sure if they need me they will let me know. The greatest help I can be is to let go and let them have these valuable last months together. I have researched alot about liver cancers but there is alot I have to learn to be any help. I think that my Ex's mom has a tumer that can not be removed. She is going through chemo and radiation treatments to just extend her life and make her comfortable. Its no wonder they are having trouble dealing with outside things. The surgery she had was to remove her gall bladder and to add some sort of stints in her bile ducts. Thats when they found out that surgery could not be completed. So they went with the treatment option. The doctors informed the family that she would not have much time left. Im not the type person to give up hope. I still think that she has a chance knowing how tough of a person she is. Plus I guess because I care so much about her I don't want to see her go. I would love to know some more about this type of cancer and what kind of chances she really has so I can sort of prepare for what is to come. My ex is not keeping in contact, and i can't blaim her with all thats going on in her life. So I am informed very little. I can't even imagin how she feels right now. Or how she felt when the doctors came out of surgery and gave her the news. I know that if I was in her shoes and my mom was sick. I would be a mess. So if any one has any info on this type of cancer, or any suggestions on how to approach my girlfriend about this please let me know. God bless you all and I wish you the best.

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