my son has had (4) bladder surgeries in 5 years. this last surgery left us with a pathology repot that reads: large bladder tumor, transurethral biopsies reading; non invasive papillary carcinoma-low grade. But yet they say the cancer was a mass and it had gone to the neck of the bladder towards the prostate. this tumor was measured at 7gm. We are scared.....can anyone help us with suggestions? The Dr said if the cancer goes to the prostate, he will not live 6 more months. please help!!!