My husband was diagnosed with Stage 4 EC with mets to the liver in Nov. 2004. He survived until Nov. 2006. He received chemo, radiation, and RFA twice to his liver. The last RFA was done in Sept. 2006 and I feel it damaged his liver to the degree it was unable to recover, however, it was his choice to do the second RFA. Your husband is probably resisting "getting his affairs in order" because to do so would be admitting that he's terminal. I'm sure he's depressed and you might want to speak with his Dr. about that. The put my husband on Celexa and Ativan. Enjoy every moment you have together and may God bless you both.