I gave some more thought to this because I feel so badly about all the stress you are under. If you have trouble understanding the terms and the grading of dysplasia, I'm going to give you some links.
http://www.oncolink.com/types/article.cfm?c=6&s=17&s
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001491.htm " target="_blank" rel="nofollow">http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001491.htm
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001491.htm " target="_blank" rel="nofollow">http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001491.htm
This is an older site, but the information is in such plain english, I'm going to post it here.
http://www.mjbovo.com/Women/Dysplasia.htm