Meesh,
As Mike mentioned, your boyfriend should be nearing the stage that he would want to get back to normal. I felt that mental attitude was allot with fighting this cancer. I got up and showered each morning to feel fresh and clean the area around my PEG .
Nutrition is very important, so is allot of water. Exercise, no matter how small is important. Just walking to the end of the block and back felt good to me. As I mentioned in another post. You have to say to yourself, okay cancer, you knocked me down, but I am back up and dusted myself off, I'm getting on with my life.
I hope he starts feeling better soon, it isn't easy, get out of bed and start watching some TV, home repair shows, anything. After watching the home repair shows, I wanted to fix something, got me tinkering around the house.
My best to everyone