My heart aches for you. We went through this in February with our Precious Mom. She went on a Friday the 22nd and we were told that she had double pneumonia and was admitted. Things just got worse...and then we were called in and told that if she didn't turn it around in 24 hours that she would not make it.....They told us that after they put her on life support that she must have had a heart attack???? and they sedated her to like a coma state and she never got to talk to us again. Her kidneys began to fail and by Thursday Mom passed on. My life will never be the same,,,I cant even explain the pain that we feel and still have lots of questions.....that's one thing I've learned ask...it doesn't matter if they like it or not....thats your loved one. I hope things can turn around for your aunt and I pray that God will give you the strength that you need. Mom had just turned 69....still so much life to live....From one hurting person to another....GOD BLESS!!
Brenda