hello,
my husband is also 39 and was dx. with stage 4 colon cancer with liver mets. wow you both are so young. God bless you. My husband is not eligible for surgery just yet as his liver is almost replaced with tumors they say. So first its chemo for him he is on his second round, He has done very well, and has tolerated the chemo with very little side effects. How is your liver? My husbands primary tumor is in his transverse colon. They may do surgery after they get the cancer under control. I wish you the best.....and stay strong and positive, you and my husband are young and strong, you both can beat this.
cheri