hi i am new in writing i hope you all wont mind. i sick with worry as i have been diagnosed with bone cancer. i have had breast cancer about 12 to 13 years ago were both my breasts were removed . i have also had my womb and ovaries removed as well nothing to do with cancer it was more of a safety measure,in case it spread the doctors thought it was a good idea. so i have had early onset menapause,last year in august in fell over in the bathroom right on my bum my spine hurt like hell then everything was fine. in january this year i went for a normal checkup for the breast and i mentioned i had fallen they sent me for a scan which came up with my upper back in the spine one veretbrae and lower back had cancer including the spleen which had a 7mm lesion. two weeks later they tell me that the lower back had no cancer just mild fracture. during the time i had requested for a second opinion at a cancer hospital. they confirmed that the one of the vertebrate had cancer but the spleen even though it had a lesion it was not cancerous. so at the end of it from having cancer at 3 places it has come down to one place. i am so confused. i have a daughter who is very close to me she is 14 years old and i know i would love to see her graduate. she is not very close to her father . we have giggles and all the things mothers and daughters do. the doctors have told me 10 years but how do you deal with it has anyone been dianosed and how have you dealt with it. are there any other treatments available to prolong . i feel very alone please advise ...