My mother had pancreatic cancer october 2007 she had the whipple procedure done Nov. 8 2007. After several trips back to the hospital, blood clotts in her leg,and not being able to eat she is doing fine. She lost about 60 pounds but after a pet scan she is cancer free. Mom is 77 years old and it is truly a blessing. She has been living with me for the past 8 months and want to go home. She lives by herself and I'm a little nervous about it. However after being the sole caregiver for 8 months I need a liitle break. At times I feel selfish about being tired and begin to feel bad. Would I not be considered a good daughter for needing a little time to have somewhat of a life for myself? Please give me some idea of my feelings.