I'm going to call my local university hospital to see if I can get in quickly. I don't even have a primary to jelp me out. I'm always been healthy! From what I'm reading it does seem extreme (especially the cone) but why is it moving so fast...and the whole comment about being dead after 9 months (pregnancy) was so stressing.
He also told me that if I had to have a cone and they could put a stitch in the cervix to help support it but that a complication could be a "dead baby". I'm crying every night (and day!). I'm going to try and call today and I'll keep you guys posted.
Thanks for the support!