A few days ago I posted a message regarding my mom only having 6 weeks to live. We are now losing days fast. Her doctor has advised us to bring Hospice in now. My mom is very coherent and refuses to allow Hospice into our home. She feels that Hospice is only there to complete the death process. Today her home health nurse stopped in and said her vitals are starting to make that "bad" turn. Mom is not in much pain, but the swelling (ascites) in her stomach, legs, and feet has progressed at a rapid pace. Her blood pressure has shot up, dryness of mouth is constant, cough, and heavy breathing is existing now. From any experience, is there anyone out there that can tell me what to expect next, and is her death approaching very soon? How soon? Please elaborate if anyone has used Hospice and how was it for you? I can only keep her comfortable so much. My heart breaks watching her go through this. Today I sat thinking if there was anything I need to say to her before she passes. I want to make sure she knows how much I love her and how much I appreciate her in my life. Any advice on this, I would appreciate.