I read your message and I am so sorry. I have a sister with breast cancer just recently told it is back in liver and lungs. Getting a biopsy in liver in a few days. She too has 3 kids...19, 17, 13. I am devastated. I do not know what to say to her, how to act, what to do..nothing. She and I are both Christians and she is in many prayers. She recently went to a different doctor to get second opinion. He is the one who ordered biopsy. First doctor told her a few days ago she has 1 year, 2 top. Other doctor was mortified that he told her that. But now that it was told..it sticks with her of course. She is a single mom that has gone thru so much. What do I say? What is "be yourself"..I can't. I am silent when with her cause I don't know what to say. She cries every time on phone with me. I tell her "this new doctor is going to be great, everything is going to be okay." But I feel its not the right thing to say, I should say something else..but what? She keeps saying that she wants to be 100% cured and travel to different places to tell her testimonial and how God cured her. I tell her you will and that will happen. I feel her friends are more supportive than I with words. I feel so stupid.