I'm so sorry to hear about your husband. My husband passed away on may 25, 2005 from liver cancer, we found out he had liver cancer on feb 23, i to like yourself have been having second thought on the treatment. I think the chemo just made the cancer progress faster. I some times wonder if he hadnt had the chemo, would he had lived longer, it just seem to me that the chemo made him so sick. When we first went to the hospital the doctor told use he had more than 50 % of his liver was good, and then he started chemo and within a month it had spread thoughout his liver. He was only taking it for a month if that. I just with the would have said even with chemo, he still only would have 6 months to live, i would have never let him do it, the last days of his life sick, tired and just not being himself, i to think they give you false hope. I would rather you tell me the truth even if its not what i want to hear, i could have prepared my self a little better, then you giving me false hopes.
Well take one day at a time.
Tina