Debbie,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your husband. I am sure that it very difficult for you and your children. I haven't had the opportunity to sit down and scream yet. I have questioned why this has happened to our family and still haven't a clue. I went to a support group at the hospital but it didn't seem to do much for me.
I am glad to hear that you are in counselling and I really hope that it is helping you. My husband has had his second attempt at having a gastrectomy to no avail. The cancer is too far spread in his abdominal cavity so he is no longer a candidate for the surgery. The doctor's are now using chemotheraphy as a means to prolong his life. I am praying that at some point his cancer goes in to remission and we can start to lead a normal life again. I really appreciate your reaching out to me and I would like to do the same for you. If you ever need to talk definitely give me a shout. I apologize for the choppy message but my brain is fried.
How long was your husband fighting cancer?
Warmest regards,
Janeen