janeen, Hello to you and your family, I haven't heard from you for a little while I pray that there is only good news and that nothing has happened. Did you do anything for your husbands birthday?, I hope you were able to do something with each other. How is your daughter, how is her diabetes going,? has your husbands cancer affected her blood levels due to stress, My daughter is having a horrible time of controlling her readings since her dad took sick and especially since he died. She is having councelling, from the diabetes specialist, councelling from the palliative grief centre, but nothing seems to be able to help her come to terms with everything that has happened. We are trying to save up enough money ($6000), it just is too much, for her to be fitted with the pumps that inject the insulin into them as they need it and the drs feel that she will be better contolled. I hope so but it maybe something she will have to get for herself when she is working (a few years time yet). Does your daughter have many injections a day, mine has five a day and she hates every one of them. How are you going are you alright, do you have any hobby or favourite past time that you try to do for your self- preservation I hope so. Is your husband still having chemo,? has he had any radiation to try to shrink the tumors?, If so I hope he is doing O.K..
How is your new house going do you like your neighbours, We moved into this house in December 05, and have only been spoken to by the people across the road, they are quite nice, I think because my husband was so sick when we moved here that they probably didn't know whether or not to come over and talk, and of course they all saw him being taken away by ambulance and they all heard that he died, that now no-one speaks to me or the kids. I haven't made any advance to go over to them either , time just keeps going on and now I feel uncomfortable about making an approach. Please let me know how things are, when you have a spare few minutes.
sending you strength to carry on,
Debbie