Cancer is an insidious disease, and it's comforting to know there are others out there who can relate to what you are going through.
Take time to allow yourself and your husband to think about things other than cancer. Keep in mind, he is a person outside of this cancer, and the more he is allowed to dwell on other things, the better. Keep him laughing, and in turn, you will laugh and feel better. Laughter is a powerful ally.
Be well, and take care.
Lisa