Donald,
First off you need to ask why they want to take your prostate and uretha . They did hollow out my prostate but I still have it and they didn't touch my uretha( except to unhook and rehook it to my new bladder ).They will take them if the cancer has spread to those areas but like it or not if that is the case they need to go. Have they run biopies on either one? I am very skeptical about the food doctor are you willing to risk your life with this guy? I would need to talk to at least 10 former bladder cancer patients and know the stage of their disease to even think of going down such a untested road.I think YOU really need to talk to a doctor that has a lot more experience with bladder cancer and I urge you to call my doctor at Vanderbilt here in Nashville he is one of the best in the country it will take you a while to get an appointment but he is worth the wait His name is Dr.Joseph Smith Chairman of the board of urology for Vanderbilt Medical center his number is 615-322-2880 in closing Donald you have a very serious form of bladder cancer that you cannot allow to get out of hand Please call Dr. Smith first thing Monday morning.
Good luck
Tim