January 2006 my sister was diagnosed with Kidney cancer and after getting so many opinions from different Philippines doctors we were told that they won't be able to save my sister. We decided not to tell her of her situation since she has no kid and she was not feeling the pain at that time. After one month she started to wonder why she is not getting better, so all of her sisters and brothers decided to tell her about the cancer, however, the husband refuses to tell her. Nowadays, my sister could not eat,swelling and vomitting anything she put in her mouth and getting weaker every day but the brain still alert. It is advisable not to tell her that she has cancer? Will it really make her weaker if we tell her? How about the pain medicine should we start giving it to her now? Please advise
Thank you.
Nenita