Hi Jim,
Sorry you had to join the club. I wanted to let you know about another list that is a lot more active than this one as to bladder cancer. Go to: www.acor.org and click on the "Mailing List" then select bladder cancer there you will find 500-600 active members that you can ask questions to and get very informed answers. I had my neobladder on 11/01/05 I was 48 at the time I was lucky that I had no lymph involvement. A other good resource is www.bcan.org
Good luck
Tim