aloha from hawaii my wife moon was diagniosed with cholangiocarcinoma just about 1 1/2 mths ago my story is a little different because my wife is only 36 yrs old we have 3 boys ages 12 10 and 8 and we where told she has only 6 to 12 mths to live i was told that it was not going to be able to be removed surgically and they would do radiation then chemo and see if they could shrink the tumor my life changed in amatter of mths and im lost on what to do for her my life and boys and wifes are in the hands of docters and nurses at kaiser permenatai am now going to be taking her home and be careing for her on a reguler bases i have to do ivs meds through iv and transport her to radation and take care of the 3 boys work a full time job and be strong her work place has ben reall great midweek and star bulletin newspaper agency has had several fundraisers and very supportive it makes it a lot easier i have looked at anti oxidents to give her to go with ration to help it succed but she cant have them cause she is in the hosiptal and wont allow it only meds the oncology doctor prescribes is allowed its all a bunch of catch 22 just wanted to let people know it just does not single itself out to older people but younger to my wife never smoled social drinker and healty person it does not discrimanate we pray and so does a large group of her freinds and co workers every min of the day for her and sit here and scratch our heads and look up to the great god and cant help but ask u created man kind did u create this too and why to such a special and angelic person who did nothing but help and love and never harm or hate and the only answer i get is god needs angels but why mine aloha from hawaii joe and his 3 sons still praying and hoping for god to give there mom back aloha