All the responses are excellent. However, you need to have one person in charge of who is bringing the meals, and what they are to cook.
They can not change their mind. Otherwise, you could have chicken 5 nights a week! This was done for me,and so appreciated. Also, you
could have a soccer mom in charge of getting the child to games etc. Music mom, ccd mom etc.
Sending cards is so uplifting, you have no idea.
Send a funny cartoon you see in the paper, and don't limit yourself to just one card. Remember this is an on going treatment etc. I am 18 months out of surgery, treatments etc, and I still get cards etc.
Your friend is SO lucky to have a great support network of friends.
Vette