My 68 year old Mother was diagnosed with stage IV adneocarcinoma with metatisis to lymph nodes and the outside lining of her abdomen. She has received her first IV chemo cocktail of cysplatin and epirubisen and is now taking Xeloda orally. The treatment was last Wed and just today is she finally able to sit up without nausea and finally able to eat small amounts. Her tumor is inoperable and the Dr hasn't mentioned radiation. She was being treated for 4 bleeding ulcers prior to cancer diagnosis. Can anyone tell me what to expect? I am 48 years old and her primary caretaker. The rest of my siblings have jobs and young children to care for, so this job falls on me. I actually live 7 hours away, but have moved in with my Mom for however long it takes. I am a very strong person, but would appreciate any advice or help. I feel very helpless and at the mercy of others for information. Is this survivable?