Hope all is still well. My mum was found to have the cancer 3 months ago and had her gall bladder, lymph nodes and some liver removed and is now having a 6 month course of chemotherapy. It is devastating to us all as she had no symptoms. I was due to leave the UK this summer for 3 years with my family to work in the USA, even though my mum is doing very well I don't know what to do. She would tell me to go but all the research I have done shows a bad picture this disease. I have not heard of anyone like you yet. What I want to know is, even if my mum is okay for a while, is she likely to still be ill and need me? We are very close and I can't believe I am still contempleting going but it affects my husband and children too if we stay. If you don't mind, I would appreciate your view. Mugwai