I'm sorry about your mom. I guess I should be grateful that my mom is still very well functioning. It must be very tough for you to take care of both of your parents. My mom's doctor referred her to hospice and they are great. Has your mom's doctor given your mom a hospice referral? They take care of alot and they are there for you too. I hope you have friends and family that you can lean on for help and support as well. You need to take care of yourself or you will not be able to care for your mom and dad...and your child. My parents have Kaiser (in CA) and they have a whole social services department and I've been in contact with one of their social workers who has been a big help. My prayers are with you...take care.