I was writing to find out if anybody has any answers for me. My husband just found out that he has melanoma. I had watched a mole grow on his back and it took me about 2 years to force him to get it checked out. He is going in on friday for them to remove lymph nodes to test them......and then we wont find out for another week if it has actually spread to them. I guess I just need some reassurance that everything will be ok. I dont know what I will do if they say it has. He's only 27...I'm only 22 and we have a 1 year old daughter.