hello my dad just learned he has to have his bladder out and he is upset with this. he just keeps saying if he could have a normal life. if he heard from someone that he will then i think he would be ok. i dont want him to give up. anything you could tell me so i can tell him about it and how your life is and do you live a normal life would help thank you so much my email is daddysgirlmunk@yahoo.com thank you again