I wish I had found this site long ago. My dog, Mister Milo, was diagnosed with bladder cancer 12 months ago. Everyone knows the lifespan after diagnosis is limited and typically varies from 2-12 months. Milo's tumor now is larger than his head. He urinates spontaneously, sometimes in his bed, but has trouble dand pain when deficating. I spoon feed him and monitor him constantly so I can wash his bedclothes and give him encouragement. It's really hard watching him in pain....I'm not sure what to do. He is on a diet of wet food only with a couple spoonfuls of yogurt a day. He takes piroxicam which seems to help and a stool softener called colace. Anyway, I'm just heartbroken and caring for him so actively is really taking it all out of me. I'm not sure what the right thing to do is anymore...I just hate watching him suffer.