Hello Shel, it was good to hear from you but very sad about the news on your husband and son-in-law, chemo again, and especially about your doctor (gyn/onc) giving up on you. You need another doctor. And I am sure there is one out there who can work with you on your other options. Here is an organization that I subscribe to online,
http://www.acor.org/
When you get to this website, in the middle of the screen is a list for online communications, support, clinical trials, etc. I joined the online discussion group for Ovarian Cancer and there are daily posts that are emailed to you with other women going through the same issues we have and I know there are thousands of us who read everyday and at least one of those sisters will have a positive and important contact for you and your situation. Here is the final link to signing up: copy and paste this: and you can sign up directly to talk to many of the other ladies with this cancer.
http://listserv.acor.org/SCRIPTS/WA-ACOR.EXE?SUBED1=ovarian&
I am praying for you every day and hope you will find some answers. There are always treatments out there and I know one is there for you...never give up, never lose hope. I also pray that your family is on the road to recovery from their pain. Your life has been overflowing with challenges, I hope you can find some peace and goodness in between the struggles.
Sincerely, JoanMarie