I am a 26 year old newly-wed. Myhusband just lost his mother February 2007. We were just married on New Year's Eve and I need some advice. My husband was the baby of the family and he and his mom were very close. He is now still in grievance for his mom and I can understand that he often tells me that during his lunch break he goes to visit his mom's grave site, but he cannot go inside of her home. I just want to know if anyone can give me any advice on how to help him cope with his loss. Like I said we were just married and we were planning our honeymoon for Valentines but after all this it had to be postponed. I want to be there for my husband without feeling like I am telling him the same thing that it will be okay. I cannot say I understand the hurt he is feeling due to the fact my mom is still living and he asks me daily have you talked to your mom, and sometime I feel uncomfortable telling him about my mom with his mom being gone. If anyone could offer me some advice on this I would greatly appreciate it. Lovingheart