CancerCompass message board discussion started by lilboy on 2/3/2008 http://www.cancercompass.com/message-board/message/all,20613,0.htm Tue, 02 Dec 2008 00:00:00 GMT Tue, 02 Dec 2008 00:00:00 GMT http://backend.userland.com/rss RSS.NET: http://www.rssdotnet.com/ hello all im new to this forum. my dad had stage 4 stomach cancer 4 month ago.  we tried chemo 3 time but not working and the cancer grow want very aggressive . he couldnt eat or drink. therefore he passed away on the 29 of jan after my birthday one day, i just turn 21. im so depress right now. i lived with my dad since i were little. my dad and mom are separated . now i feel so lonely. i have to survive by myself right now. i hate cancer... and don't know what to do lilboy Sun, 03 Feb 2008 00:00:00 GMT Hello,Sorry to hear about your loss. We are all in a lot of pain in this forum. You definitley came to the right place. I am dealing with my mom's situation right now and I feel like my world is crumbling. Some days she is ok and others...I don't know. I am only 31 and the stress of a sick parent or a loss as in your case is just so stressful. I am here to talk to if you like and I am sure there are many others that will respond to you as well. Take care of yourself and know now you have someone who loves you watching over you and know he is with you all the time.Jenn VintageLadyJ Mon, 04 Feb 2008 00:00:00 GMT Lilboy,I am so sorry for your loss.  I just lost my 61-year-old husband to stomach cancer on February 22.  My best friend is gone.  All I do is cry. We had so many happy memories - that's what I think about when I can't bear it anymore.  Good luck and keep happy thoughts.Diane Anniedips Sun, 09 Mar 2008 00:00:00 GMT sorry to hear that. . i cry every night when i see my dad picture. the best thing  we can do is  take care ourselves first . they now in the heaven. no pain and no stress in that place. we will se them again soon. hope you feel better lilboy Mon, 10 Mar 2008 00:00:00 GMT