CancerCompass message board discussion started by sydoz on 4/16/2008 http://www.cancercompass.com/message-board/message/all,23104,0.htm Thu, 24 Jul 2008 00:00:00 GMT Thu, 24 Jul 2008 00:00:00 GMT http://backend.userland.com/rss RSS.NET: http://www.rssdotnet.com/ Last update on my beautiful, most caring, loving, mother and best friend. My mum Elizabeth died last Wednesday night 9th April 2008 after being in palliative care for 7 days. After her one month break from chemo, where she was in more agonising pain from weightloss and cancer metastisis, she had one session of radiotherapy for her protruding lump, but never came back home. She was admitted to hospital and put on a drip. Her constipation was relieved, though after a truly harsh experience with laxative meds and pain killers, she passed away peacefully. We watched her closely throughout those seven days, until her breathe deepened, her heart rate increased, and finally passed. I cant express how I and my family will miss her. I am too numb to cry now, but I know that with family, friends and your support through this forum, my brother, father and I will get by somehow.We are still in slight shock, but I know she is in a better place now. I want to thank all the people who replied to my messages on this site since August 2007. I will keep visiting once and again. Please dont loose hope with my mum's story. My prayers are with you all. Thanks again.  Charli   Hey allnot really good news down here. mums off the chemo for 3 weeks due to worstening side effects and extreme weight loss. the liver cysts increeased in number and esopahgus tumour got slightly bigger. therefore, the damn chemo didnt work. so, now they will try a trial study drug on her in 3 weeks time. for now she's still in pain and feeling not so good. any advise? thanks!charliHi guys! Just an update on my mum's condition since diagnosis in September 2007 See story below for more detials:Since diagnosis she's had 6 sessions of chemotherapy. CT scan shows decrease in size of esophagus tumour BUT one of the several cysts in her liver has doubled in size, so doctors have put her on anoth 6 weeks of chemo with breaks in between. I need some advice, she is having so much pain on her liver side of her stomach. There is a small lump almost like a pimple and also another lump that you can feel on her upper abdomen. Its very painful for her and we dont know how to get rid of the pain. The pain meds are not working. I'm so so worried for her. Is anyone experiencing the same thing? Your advice would be very much appreciated.  sydoz Subject: New to Esophagel Cancer------------------------Date: 09/09/2007Hi All, My mum (aged 59) has had reflux and chest pains over the past few months and for about 1.5 years she has been burping and taking antacids after eating. She has only recently had a biopsy, endoscopy, CT scans, ultrasounds, and blood tests. She was diagnosed with a MODERATELY DIFFERENTIATED ADENOCARCINOMA found at the bottom of her esophagus, and her liver scan found a cyst (bubble) also. We are still waiting to have a PET scan and endo-ultrasound of the cyst next week. Her specialist spoke about the consequences if we do not do anything to cure the cyst found in her esophagus, and mentioned chemo/radiotherapy and surgery. For now, we still do not know what stage her cancer is at.  We are all really worried about what will happen from now on end. Could someone shed some light on what to expect?  Many thanks!Sydoz... sydoz Wed, 16 Apr 2008 00:00:00 GMT Dear Charli, I am so sorry for the loss of your mother.  I know the pain is so great.  You will be numb for a while, but that passes and the grief takes over.  You will deal with it - as painful as it will be.  I believe we all will be reunited, until then you can only keep wonderful memories in your heart.  God's blessings on you and your family,Diane Anniedips Wed, 16 Apr 2008 00:00:00 GMT Dear Charli,I am so very sorry that you lost your mother to this terrible disease. I pray that you will be blessed with peace and wonderful memories during this difficult time.  GeorgesGirl Wed, 16 Apr 2008 00:00:00 GMT CharliI don't really have any words that can make you feel better or express how truley sorry I am to hear about your mom. I can't imagine what you are going through and sadly I belive I will be there soon but try to take one day at a time, honor your mom and relive your memories daily. You seem incredibly strong and I am inspired by your courage.you will be in my thoughtscatherine cmullen Wed, 16 Apr 2008 00:00:00 GMT Hi Charli, Having just returned from hospital, I was so saddened to log on today and read your sad news. i do not have words to express except that her pain is over.  Hugs from QueenslandChrissy  ChrissyN Thu, 17 Apr 2008 00:00:00 GMT