CancerCompass message board discussion started by 3kidzmom on 5/9/2008 http://www.cancercompass.com/message-board/message/all,23890,0.htm Sun, 06 Jul 2008 00:00:00 GMT Sun, 06 Jul 2008 00:00:00 GMT http://backend.userland.com/rss RSS.NET: http://www.rssdotnet.com/ My dad died from non-small cell cancer on March 29, 2008.  We think it began as lung cancer but he was told that he had CUP, cancer of unknown primary back in February 2007.  We tried everything.  I went to every appointment that my dad had, whether it was with the Oncologist, or a CAT scan or chemo.  I was very involved up to the day he died (as I am an only child).  Since my dad died, my mom has become very angry at me and the world in general.  She is now on anti-depressants, but is very difficult to talk to.   I miss my dad so much and am still grieving myself but my mom has now become a main concern and I don't know what to do.  I am trying to be very understanding, but she is very distant and difficult to get through to.  I'm wondering if anyone has had the same experience? Thanks,Cindy 3kidzmom Fri, 09 May 2008 00:00:00 GMT