Been there, still sorting it out financially.
First, bad fiscal judgement and action on the part of GBM patients is well documented. Very common.
First, get POA. As the spouse, and particularly in connection to the house this is necessary. Don't know how easy it will be with the son in the mix, but you should be successful.
Then, get professional financial advice. Trust me, I have paid quite a bit in CPA ...
August 14, 2013