My husband had surgery for prostate cancer 5 years ago and since he found out about the cancer he has been very depressed and has been drinking a lot. His psa has been fine at every check up but it really does not matter. He refuses to see the doctor about his depression and as his wife, life has been very difficult for the last few years.I am angry that he will not seek help and so we live with his anger. So I have been online looking for support from other caregivers and maybe some insight into how to handle my situation.