Love life with Cancer.

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Love life with Cancer.

by wildcherrry on Tue Mar 20, 2018 12:44 PM

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I am a 69 year old white male. . I have Advanced Prostate Cancer that is being contained with hormone therapy. I have a Urostomy after surgery remioving my bladder and prostate. A year ago they (VA) found a Tumor in my throat  and they killed the Tumor with radiation but it left me with horrible side egnoffects,. I cough up mucas all the time and my voice box is badly damaged.. My appitite was bad for several months and I have lost 90 lbs. The Tumor in my troat spread to my lungs and I now have lung Cancer My prognosis is about a year unless the Chemo works but it will only buy me more time. Yeah, I'm a mess but I havre no other problems   except Cancer and my Wife.. She is my loving Caregiver. I'm not bedridden yet so she helps me with everything I need.  My wife is 60 and she is so beautiful for her age, She weighs 118 lbs and looks 40. . She's a natural blonde. She gets quite a bit of male attention wherever she gos.. She is in perfect health. 

  About a year ago I discovered she was having a Platonic affair with a guy at the gym. He is 53. They had been kissing , hugging and making out but she asked him to wait till I passed to have sex   and he went along with it for awhile , then he got impatient and broke up with her. As strange as it sounds I feel bad for her because i know i can't fulfil all her needs and I know she gets lonely from having to deal with our Sick House. envirement. I would like to hear some input, especially Male caregivers that I would pass along her email address to so she has some friends to talk to who she has something in common with. Obviously, she doesn't know I'm doing this . I just love her so much I don't want her to be alone and I want her to be happy.

RE: Love life with Cancer.

by EdgarOlson on Sat Feb 09, 2019 06:55 AM

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Even my grandmother has been diagnosed with cancer. As she is enrolled under the Medicare insurance plan which she has purchased from this source https://www.thehealthexchangeagency.com/medicare-supplement- all her prescribed medicines are being covered under the plan. Hope so that she discovers soon. 

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