Dear Beachygal:
Which Mayo Clinic are you at? You need to be working with sarcoma specialist! Retroperitoneal sarcoma is less common than extremity with complex issuses involving vital organs. I am ahead of you in dealing with this disease - into my 3rd tumor. On the initial case - SURGERY is the most important form of treatment that will effect your furutre circumstances.
Well differentiated is a low grade mass that mutates into dedifferentiated a high grade more radical fast growing tumor. Your turmor has both and is progressivly becoming more dedifferentiated which will create more problems.
I initally did 2 rounds of the chemo and then did CT to check for necrosis which there was non and went into surgery. Radiation to the retropertineal area is not receommended because it will create more scar tissue and make the surgery more difficult. Get to surgery before more damage is done from the fast growing large tumor that you have that is nonresponsive to chemo.
Make sure your surgery is the FIRST one of the day! It will be difficult and the surgeon needs to be alert as possible and not tired from other surgeries. Regardless of CT scan you do not know the real story until in surgery. See if they can save your kidney - you are going to need this later. I lost my left kidney in my first surgery because of the size of the mass but there was no invasion. Surgeon could have worked harder to save it - was a 7 1/2 hour surgery. Now my 3rd mass is around my remaining kidney - which would have to come out and leave me without any kidneys.
This disease is incurrable you will be monitored with CT scan until a new mass appears and you may have some treatment or srugery again - until the next one. I am in my 7th year dealing with this. At this time my new tumor is around the ureter of my right kidney with local invasion. I have chosen to go on Ibrance oral chemo that may 50% chance stabalize the growth until I finally need to have surgery. Because your mass is so invasive at this time you really need to have it debulked and removed asap.
Best wishes for a complete rescetion and long period of no new growths! Note this is my personal opinion you should concur with your Oncologist.
GFranco