I lost my mom and need to talk to some1!!

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I lost my mom and need to talk to some1!!

by MaddyJade on Tue Jun 19, 2012 03:43 AM

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I just made this account and have no friends on here! I have no true friends to talk to and thought I could talk to people who understand me. My mom died when I was 10. I had 5 brothers. And I was the only girl. I thought my life was over. My mom had cancer 4 times before she died. She had leaukemia (I'm not sure how to spell it). She was my best friend! I told her everything and now I have no one to talk to. She died September 21, 2009. I keep my emotions in. Someways I wanna explode, most nights I cry myself to sleep. Please add me on your friend list.

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by kw45lantern on Thu Jun 21, 2012 02:26 PM

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Dear Lost my mom

     So sorry to hear that you lost your mom at the age of 10.   So your pretty young still.     I too lost my mom at age 10 she did not die of cancer though.   I was the one to get that.    I to have 5 brothers and sisters (2 sisters and 3 brothers)   all are younger than me.  Who is caring for you now??/  Your dad??  Do you have a good relationship with him??   What about school I am sure you have friends there.     I know its probably still very hard to accept the loss of your best friend/mom but believe me as time goes on things do get better.    After my mom died I had to become the mom almost to my brothers and sisters.    It wasn't easy but I feel I am a stronger person for it       I have great hope that you will meet lots of new friends here on this website     take good care   KW

  

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by pineconepeg on Thu Jun 28, 2012 07:45 AM

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Maddy,

My Mom died last year.  I miss her like crazy.  I know she wouldn't want me to be sad, but it's hard not to be.  Being a teenager is hard, too.    You were lucky to have such a close relationship with your mom. Maybe you have an aunt you can talk to, or your Moms best friend?

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by mstock on Wed Jul 18, 2012 08:20 PM

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I'm very sorry for your lost, God bless you, everything will be better, Because I lost my Mother a few years ago, I love her dearly. Mike

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by richeyt on Wed Jul 18, 2012 08:37 PM

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Hi Maddy,

You and your'e family are in my prayers:)  I have been fighting colon cancer since 10/10.  The peace I get as hard as it is when I think about death is that the person is no longer in pain, it is much harder on the family and friends in my exp, so I pray for peace for you:)

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by mstock on Wed Jul 18, 2012 08:50 PM

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On Jul 18, 2012 8:37 PM richeyt wrote:

Hi Maddy,

You and your'e family are in my prayers:)  I have been fighting colon cancer since 10/10.  The peace I get as hard as it is when I think about death is that the person is no longer in pain, it is much harder on the family and friends in my exp, so I pray for peace for you:)

Thank you so much and God Bless

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by MC2012 on Fri Jul 20, 2012 02:42 AM

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Sorry to hear that at such a young age you had to experience such a great loss.None of us can take that pain away but know that we're all hear when you need someone to talk to. Look to your family for support and understanding.Expres s your feelings to your family as they may not know your having a difficult time coping with it all. Family is most important. Cherish your memories of her.

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by LITTLEMISS on Fri Jul 20, 2012 12:39 PM

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On Jun 19, 2012 3:43 AM MaddyJade wrote:

I just made this account and have no friends on here! I have no true friends to talk to and thought I could talk to people who understand me. My mom died when I was 10. I had 5 brothers. And I was the only girl. I thought my life was over. My mom had cancer 4 times before she died. She had leaukemia (I'm not sure how to spell it). She was my best friend! I told her everything and now I have no one to talk to. She died September 21, 2009. I keep my emotions in. Someways I wanna explode, most nights I cry myself to sleep. Please add me on your friend list.

So sorry to hear about your Mum. I am sure she will be looking down on you and caring for you all.

I hope you can find someone to talk to and share your thoughts and feelings with.

Just to let you know that I am thinking of you.

Take care and Mum's are always our best friends that is what makes it so hard to deal with. I am so sorry I do not know what to say other than that I am thinking about you and hope you get stronger each day.

Take care

Cuddles

L in Scotland 

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by bestfriendmom on Fri Jul 20, 2012 01:13 PM

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I am so sorry to hear about you loss.  I am in the process of losing my mother to cancer and she is also my best friend. I am fortunate that I have other friends to help me through this.  I have also sought help through a counselor who I see weekly to deal with the anger and the emotions that losing a love cause.  I lost my husband when I was very young and it was hard but losing my mom is going to be even hard because not only is she my mom she is my best friend.  if you every need to talk I am here

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by bkw011164 on Tue Jul 31, 2012 12:35 PM

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I can't say that i know how you feel... But i did lose my mother august 2011 so almost a year now she has been gone. I have met some amazing people thru a good friend that started a group on facebook called cancer crackdown. It is for patients and for ones that have lost a loved one. It makes it easier to have someone to talk to. So think about finding someone that you can create a friendship with cause that is key that i have come to find out.

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