family members blaming me for my husbands caner

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family members blaming me for my husbands caner

by louisandstacey on Mon Oct 07, 2013 01:11 AM

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i husband was recently diagnosed with prostate cancer my husbands sister died of cancer and his other sister is living with told her we were meeting with several surgeons and one radiiologist my husband wants surgery but i thought he should meet with radiologist when i told this to my mother in law she said to me that i want to prolong this and that i want it my husband to be sick i yelled no i dont i broke down crying my husband would not defend me said this was about him now she says shes comming for the surgery i said okay as long as she didnt mouth off 6to me and cause me added stress so she said she wont talk to me  shes here to support her son and grandson so i told my huband if shes going to not talk to me she cant stay here her sister lives nearby she can stay there my husband is yelling at me

family members blame me

by louisandstacey on Mon Oct 07, 2013 01:13 AM

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for my husbands cancer

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by shugytx on Mon Oct 07, 2013 01:31 AM

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he is going to need you be the rock

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by southernstar on Tue Dec 10, 2013 08:45 PM

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My husband was also diagnosed with cancer last November. Like you said, I didn't get any support. Everyone was calling to talk to my husband not me.  I hope things are going better for you now.

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by sue1234 on Tue Dec 10, 2013 09:42 PM

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On Oct 07, 2013 1:11 AM louisandstacey wrote:

i husband was recently diagnosed with prostate cancer my husbands sister died of cancer and his other sister is living with told her we were meeting with several surgeons and one radiiologist my husband wants surgery but i thought he should meet with radiologist when i told this to my mother in law she said to me that i want to prolong this and that i want it my husband to be sick i yelled no i dont i broke down crying my husband would not defend me said this was about him now she says shes comming for the surgery i said okay as long as she didnt mouth off 6to me and cause me added stress so she said she wont talk to me  shes here to support her son and grandson so i told my huband if shes going to not talk to me she cant stay here her sister lives nearby she can stay there my husband is yelling at me

I'm sorry you are having this stress on top of your husband having cancer. I am sure you have always had problems with your mother-in-law. Hopefully you will be able to talk to your husband, your husband is the problem. If he put her in her place she would be more cautious. It's ridiculous that you caused his cancer. What a damn ignorant comment. Good luck. Sue

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by sue1234 on Tue Dec 10, 2013 09:42 PM

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On Oct 07, 2013 1:11 AM louisandstacey wrote:

i husband was recently diagnosed with prostate cancer my husbands sister died of cancer and his other sister is living with told her we were meeting with several surgeons and one radiiologist my husband wants surgery but i thought he should meet with radiologist when i told this to my mother in law she said to me that i want to prolong this and that i want it my husband to be sick i yelled no i dont i broke down crying my husband would not defend me said this was about him now she says shes comming for the surgery i said okay as long as she didnt mouth off 6to me and cause me added stress so she said she wont talk to me  shes here to support her son and grandson so i told my huband if shes going to not talk to me she cant stay here her sister lives nearby she can stay there my husband is yelling at me

I'm sorry you are having this stress on top of your husband having cancer. I am sure you have always had problems with your mother-in-law. Hopefully you will be able to talk to your husband, your husband is the problem. If he put her in her place she would be more cautious. It's ridiculous that you caused his cancer. What a damn ignorant comment. Good luck. Sue

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by louisandstacey on Wed Dec 11, 2013 02:50 AM

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dear sue he had the surtgery she stayed for a few days ran to the first to see him when he woe up  i put her to work maing his favorite meals and doing some sewing  when we we went out t vote he told me he did not want her here anymore  she also told me my house was a mess and cleaned it while i was with him in the hospital  i did not think that my husband having cancer surgery warranted me cleaning up for her that what other people do for you in a crises why not give somone else a job and hire a maid which is what i wouldve done if i remembered anyway my husband is ok he goes to have his post surgery psa taen next wee

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by sue1234 on Wed Dec 11, 2013 04:23 AM

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hShe would

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by sue1234 on Wed Dec 11, 2013 04:25 AM

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she would have hated having me as a daughter in law, just sayin'. Good luck. Sue

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