Boyfriend Refuses To Go To The Doctor!!!!

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Boyfriend Refuses To Go To The Doctor!!!!

by MelissaRosalie on Tue Mar 18, 2014 04:07 PM

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Hi everyone im 25 years old been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and im loving every minute it...rewind to may 2013 my bf is diagnosed with TC he had his right testie removed. He is now doing well...he has been going to the doctors every 3 months for check ups for the past few times but now all of sudden refuses to go. He tells me that he doesnt want to know if he has cancer again or doesnt want to have to go through the painful surgery again. He wants to have children with me yet he refuses to take care of himself! I dont understand I keep telling him that he cant have children with me if he doesnt take care of himself and that he is being selfish and then he says im being selfish for bringing the doctors up again and again after he says he doesnt want to go..im so confused and dont know what to do to make him go...even though i know i cant make him do anything.. i just want the best for him, i thought about going to my parents for a few days (we live together) to see if he really loves me then he would take care of himself and show me he loves me and just take care of himself...im not sure what to do though cause i dont want to ruin our relationship!! any help/advise? thanks!

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