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    My beautiful 40 year old daughter died of colon cancer with mets to the liver. She didn't make it, it was terrible and in the end she bled to death dute to the mets to her liver. Chemo made her weak and feeling lousy, Chemo knocked her down and she ended up in bed for days. she was also very weak. I have made a decision, if I should get this friggin horrible disease I will not do chemo, radiation or alternatives. I w...

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      I was on this site after my beautiful daughter passed away, May 30, 2013. Tina had colon cancer which metastasized in her liver. Her husband and I were her care takers. My Tina was only 40 when we lost her. I have never recovered, I work with my family doctor, a NP, and grief counselor. I just cannot come to terms with losing my daughter. My granddaughter was 18 when her mom passed, she quit college and drinks her li...

      August 25, 2017 view discussion
      • mydaughtertina has replied to a post on the message board

        I tried to send this to CC as abuse but it came back to me as the one being abusive.

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        • mydaughtertina has replied to a post on the message board

          I cannot believe that CC has allowed this on this site. Just unbelievable.

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          • mydaughtertina has replied to a post on the message board

            Dear Avery, I cannot believe what I just read. How can a mother say 'just suck it up'? Isn't your sister your mother's daughter? I have never heard of such heartless comments. This is so reprehensible. So what if your mother lives in another state, I lived in another state and was with my daughter, It is heartbreaking enough for someone you love with all your heart to be so sick, but I truly cannot believe your moth...

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            • mydaughtertina has replied to a post on the message board

              My beautiful 40 year young daughter passed away 5/30/13 from colon cancer with mets to the liver. I am so heartbroken and lonesome without her, she was my heart, my life and reason for living. I will probably cry for the rest of my life but that is the way it is, some days are just impossible and I don't want to go on, I just want to be with Tina. By accident I found this great site on 'grief' www.recover-from-g...

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              • mydaughtertina has replied to a post on the message board

                Sarah I so agree with you, it is their illness, help them, love them, and help them go on each day. Arguments are over, it is 'time out' forever. Be patient with your dad he is scared to death. Just love and hold him, as he did when you were a baby. Prayers, Bremda

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                  Dear Dharmagirl, The exact same thing happened to my beautiful daughter who passed away 5/30/13. She had such a wonderful day on Tuesday, finally eating, drinking and interacting with us, she went into decline on the next day, and passed away on the following day Thursday. This is a blessing, I was so happy. But I knew in my heart that I was losing the most important person in my entire life, and I suffer everyday o...

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                    PhyllisA, We all hate cancer, it takes the love of our lives from us, children, husband, wives. It makes us mentally as ill as the one we love and care for. Such sadness and sorrow comes with this horrible disease. I will never in my life understand why my daughter, as you all wonder 'why' with your loved one. So unfair, so devastating and terrible. Wish you all well, we are all going and have been through it, I am ...

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                    • mydaughtertina has replied to a post on the message board

                      Dear Fredward, Yes I lost it many times when my daughter was so ill. You did all you could do, I am now 7 months without my beautiful daughter, and I still cry my heart out, life will never ever be the same. I miss her so much. She passed away at home as she insisted, we were with her every minute. Don't carry anymore guilt, try to find peace as I am trying to do, but losing a child, I know I will never really find ...

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